How to address a lady

JamesBondGuyJamesBondGuy DenmarkPosts: 144MI6 Agent
In Skyfall M is called mum throughout the film. Is that the correct way to address a lady? Isn't it spelled ma'am? I need a good explanation :)).

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  • I'm the MoneyI'm the Money UKPosts: 8MI6 Agent
    edited October 2012
    In Skyfall M is called mum throughout the film. Is that the correct way to address a lady? Isn't it spelled ma'am? I need a good explanation :)).

    It is spelled ma'am, yes, you are shortening "madam" then, just leaving the "d" out.
    True Londoners (rare enough), what you find south of there and especially Wales are places where this English pronunciation still dominates.

    To answer your question in a simple way:
    What you heard means "madam".

    And that's it.

    They were just calling her "madam" basically.



    Though etymologically madam and madame, maman and mutter, mater and mitera:

    M.

    Loved her.
  • Mr BeechMr Beech Florida, USAPosts: 1,749MI6 Agent
    In Skyfall M is called mum throughout the film. Is that the correct way to address a lady? Isn't it spelled ma'am? I need a good explanation :)).

    I always thought they were saying ma'am, or mam. It sounds a bit like mom, but when they are actually saying mom, it sounds more distinctly like mum.
  • ThunderpussyThunderpussy Behind you !Posts: 63,792MI6 Agent
    I was always told it was Mam as in HAM not Mum as in BUM. :))
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  • I'm the MoneyI'm the Money UKPosts: 8MI6 Agent
    I was always told it was Mam as in HAM not Mum as in BUM. :))

    Or that of course :x
  • JamesBondGuyJamesBondGuy DenmarkPosts: 144MI6 Agent
    In Skyfall M is called mum throughout the film. Is that the correct way to address a lady? Isn't it spelled ma'am? I need a good explanation :)).

    It is spelled ma'am, yes, you are shortening "madam" then, just leaving the "d" out.
    True Londoners (rare enough), what you find south of there and especially Wales are places where this English pronunciation still dominates.

    To answer your question in a simple way:
    What you heard means "madam".

    And that's it.

    They were just calling her "madam" basically.



    Though etymologically madam and madame, maman and mutter, mater and mitera:

    M.

    Loved her.

    Thanks for the explanation :D.
  • Jedi MasterJedi Master UKPosts: 1,093MI6 Agent
    I was always told it was Mam as in HAM not Mum as in BUM. :))

    The current monarch, Queen Elizabeth II, prefers to be addressed as "Ma'am as in Jam", but it is perfectly correct to say "Ma'am as in arm" (which is evidently how this lady prefers to be addressed, possibly out of deference to the Queen, we can't really say). "Mum as in bum" is only used to refer to your mother and nobody else, unless you want to offend them!
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  • Sir MilesSir Miles The Wrong Side Of The WardrobePosts: 27,929Chief of Staff
    I was always told it was Mam as in HAM not Mum as in BUM. :))

    The current monarch, Queen Elizabeth II, prefers to be addressed as "Ma'am as in Jam", but it is perfectly correct to say "Ma'am as in arm" (which is evidently how this lady prefers to be addressed, possibly out of deference to the Queen, we can't really say). "Mum as in bum" is only used to refer to your mother and nobody else, unless you want to offend them!

    It should ONLY be pronounced mam as in jam....no other way is acceptable....but you CAN get away with mum....marm as in arm is a BIG no-no I'm afraid...and you will get funny looks if you do...
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  • ThunderpussyThunderpussy Behind you !Posts: 63,792MI6 Agent
    So long as everyone Keeps calling me Princess, I don't really mind. :D
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  • minigeffminigeff EnglandPosts: 7,884MI6 Agent
    Sir Miles wrote:
    I was always told it was Mam as in HAM not Mum as in BUM. :))

    The current monarch, Queen Elizabeth II, prefers to be addressed as "Ma'am as in Jam", but it is perfectly correct to say "Ma'am as in arm" (which is evidently how this lady prefers to be addressed, possibly out of deference to the Queen, we can't really say). "Mum as in bum" is only used to refer to your mother and nobody else, unless you want to offend them!

    It should ONLY be pronounced mam as in jam....no other way is acceptable....but you CAN get away with mum....marm as in arm is a BIG no-no I'm afraid...and you will get funny looks if you do...

    just give her a big peck on the cheek, could even go for a sneaky squeeze of the royal behind if ya wanted.
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  • Sir MilesSir Miles The Wrong Side Of The WardrobePosts: 27,929Chief of Staff
    So long as everyone Keeps calling me Princess, I don't really mind. :D

    I thought you prefered 'mummys little soldier' :))
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  • Jedi MasterJedi Master UKPosts: 1,093MI6 Agent
    Sir Miles wrote:
    It should ONLY be pronounced mam as in jam....no other way is acceptable....but you CAN get away with mum....marm as in arm is a BIG no-no I'm afraid...and you will get funny looks if you do...

    Then how come they all referred to M as "marm"?!
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  • Sir MilesSir Miles The Wrong Side Of The WardrobePosts: 27,929Chief of Staff
    Sir Miles wrote:
    It should ONLY be pronounced mam as in jam....no other way is acceptable....but you CAN get away with mum....marm as in arm is a BIG no-no I'm afraid...and you will get funny looks if you do...

    Then how come they all referred to M as "marm"?!

    Don't know....have you tried asking them ? :s

    It's probably just 'movie misconceptions'....that's what most people expect to hear...so that's what they give them...it happens all too often...
    YNWA 97
  • JarvioJarvio EnglandPosts: 4,241MI6 Agent
    How to address a lady? "Hey bitch, get yo ass here!"
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  • ThunderpussyThunderpussy Behind you !Posts: 63,792MI6 Agent
    http://youtu.be/k4R5wZs8cxI

    Cagney addressing a Lady. :))
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