Halloween
FelixLeiter ♀
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I know there are other threads existing on Halloween. But I decided to make this one for us all to comment on whether we enjoy Halloween, whether we do anything for it and things like that.
Personally I think I'm a bit old for trick or treating and haven't been for a few years now and shall only probably go again when it's with kids of my own.
Sometimes I go to parties or have a few friends round to watch 'scary' movies.
I think Halloween is alright and I enjoy it mostly as I'm not usually disturbed be trick or treaters beyond 8pm.
The only thing that annoys me about the holiday is when we hear about yobs going round ruining the fun. Like on the news this morning I heard about some lads in Liverpool bricking a bus. I don't think you really need to go round doing such things to enjoy Halloween and really parents should do more to stop their children going out if they're going to do things like that. Their parents shouldn't accept as I know if my parents knew I'd ever done anything like that then they'd completely hit the roof.
Personally I think I'm a bit old for trick or treating and haven't been for a few years now and shall only probably go again when it's with kids of my own.
Sometimes I go to parties or have a few friends round to watch 'scary' movies.
I think Halloween is alright and I enjoy it mostly as I'm not usually disturbed be trick or treaters beyond 8pm.
The only thing that annoys me about the holiday is when we hear about yobs going round ruining the fun. Like on the news this morning I heard about some lads in Liverpool bricking a bus. I don't think you really need to go round doing such things to enjoy Halloween and really parents should do more to stop their children going out if they're going to do things like that. Their parents shouldn't accept as I know if my parents knew I'd ever done anything like that then they'd completely hit the roof.
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What's worse is the examples like you mentioned, Felix, where someone takes advantage of "halloween hi-jinks" to cause an act of flat out vandalism and violence. No excuse.
Plus I don't like the way that Halloween rubs up against and in some ways overshadows Bonfire Night, which is a traditional event in this country and not something that's been imported from abroad to try and flog more chocolate; I don't like being unable to shop in Tesco's without being accosted by checkout staff dressed as Bela Lugosi; and I also can't stand the way that it now seems to be spelt Halloween instead of Hallowe'en because apostrophes are now considered the tools of the mad for a large portion of the country.
Jesus I'm a miserable sod.
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I dont like the "holiday." Its so un needed, and so American. It feels out of place down here (its near summer, and pretty hot atm - not what i when i want to wear a costume.) Only one personwas brave enough to ring our doorbell. And they were with their dads, so i doubt that they would have done anything if we didnt give them anything.
A funny side story is that the local supermarket refused to sell eggs to minors, as a result they were rung up and told that they were going to be egged. Ahhh, the circle of life.
I work for a grocery store. Our manager tells us not to be afraid to refuse to sell eggs to minors. It usually isn't a problem. Minors don't come through with eggs.
As for the holiday. I don't like Halloween. I agree, kids shouldn't be out begging for candy. If they want to go out trick or treating they should go out with the orange UNICEF boxes and do something good for someone else.
Where I live, it's far from extortion; if one doesn't wish to participate, he turns off his front porch light, and is left alone. No big deal; no property damage, no lawlessness.
I'm the father of two boys, now aged 11 (nearly) and 8. We make a lap of the neighborhood (a couple of blocks of middle-class suburban houses), they go to the houses who enjoy the event, and get a couple of pieces of candy from each. They get to dress up, play make-believe and get a few treats. No harm, no foul. Dad comes along with a flashlight, for traffic control B-)
Then, when we've finished, we come home and watch a classic monster movie (tonight it's "Abbott and Costello Meet Frankenstein")
"I am not an entrant in the Shakespeare Stakes." - Ian Fleming
"Screw 'em." - Daniel Craig, The Best James Bond EverTM
I just got back from trick-or-treating with my 7-year-old daughter (who was a 50's bobby sox girl). We had a wonderful time and exchanged pleasantries with all our neighbors who were in their homes or out with their own kids. She collected a small bagful of candy, much of which we will donate to a local youth organization.
Yes, some of the older kids engage in mild hooliganism -- usually involving eggs or shaving cream -- but no real harm is done.
Halloween is fun for the kids -- period. And if I was a poor enough role model to allow one night of candy-gathering to somehow lessen my children's morals, then I have no business having kids in the first place.
"I am not an entrant in the Shakespeare Stakes." - Ian Fleming
"Screw 'em." - Daniel Craig, The Best James Bond EverTM
I'll say they're sourpusses, Sir Hillary. They need to take a Valium or something.
Maybe times have changed since I went trick or treating or took my kid, but I never thought of it as extortion. And I never took revenge or even considered taking revenge on someone who didn't give me candy, and never knew or heard of anyone who did. In fact, I don't think that as a kid I really knew "Trick or Treat" was anything but a traditional phrase you said when someone answered the door.
Is hooliganism really that prevalent nowadays?
But I do understand that Halloween is really an import in Britain (although I gather the colonists brought it with them from the UK and elsewhere in Europe). Isn't Guy Fawkes Day somewhat similar to Halloween?
I think it's kind of funny that France now has Halloween. Didn't when I lived there.
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Unneeded and American??? What is that supposed to mean? Didn't Halloween originate in the United Kingdom with the Celtics and the Druids anyway?
I agree with the lighten up crowd, don't let an apostrophe or some rotten kids spoil a little spooky fun for you.
Happy Halloween everybody!
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"I am not an entrant in the Shakespeare Stakes." - Ian Fleming
"Screw 'em." - Daniel Craig, The Best James Bond EverTM
I've heard on the news about the greater need for policing on Hallowe'en, that some cities have minibuses full of coppers driving round the streets keeping an eye out for ASBO kids and the like but to be honest, while that's been on national UK news, I've never heard it being a particular problem in my part of the world. And while I can perfectly understand that not only does it ruin Hallowe'en for some, it taints it with an ugly, problematic brush. But the kids that will cause trouble on Hallowe'en are the same kids that will hang around street corners with a bottle of cider bricking buses anyway - sure higher profile policing might be needed in some cities during Hallowe'en, but maybe if the bloody system dealt with these anti-social louts on the other 364 days of the year we might not have that problem.
Anyway...
Hallowe'en. In Scotland it's never been a big deal in terms of decorated houses (never seen one), but it dates way back - as Mo points out it's a Celtic pagan festival - and we do get the guisers going round the houses. It's called guising up here and the tradition is that the kids perform some sort of entertainment (song, joke, whatever) and if it's enjoyed by the host, of course it always is, they're rewarded with sweets. There's no tradition of "trick or treat" up here. At parties and the like, the tradition of dooking for apples (trying to grab an apple out of a bucket of water with your teeth) and retreiving, again with your teeth, a treacle-coated scone swinging on a string while blindfolded, were the games of the day.
Where I live, generaly the guisers visiting are limited to the kids from the street (all 12 of) and last night that's just who came. Not only is it a good way to be neighbourly and build good relations with the kids (and parents) in the area, but you do get some terrific bits of gossip from their accompying folks
As for it eclipsing Guy Fawkes Night, it always did up here as Guy Fawkes is essentially an English celebration (post-union of crowns, pre-union of parliaments) but in the last few years - actually since the Millenium - it's become A LOT more popular up here, so much so that on Sunday night the sky will light up and the ground will shake like downtown Baghdad on Shock & Awe night - and that's just a small coastal town.
I actually read, much to my disgust, on the BBC website the other day that "Halloween celebrations in the UK were repopularised in the 1980s with influence from America". Garbage. Repopularised in England perhaps, but it didn't need re-energising up here from America or anyone else. I've also heard that carved pumpkins have only become popular here in recent years due to their use in the US. Again, garbage. Pumpkins are far more available than they ever were, but I remember carrying out a carved turnip when I was 5 - it originated in Scotland and was shipped to America.
As for apostrophes, that's the way I grew up spelling it, it doesn't bother me if it's used or not but, unlike jetset, I've not sold out
(A belated) Happy Hallowe'en everyone!
I don't support Halloween personally, I agree that in this country it's simply an excuse for chaos. Jetset hit the nail on the head. Here in the UK, some people are too frightened even to open the doors, incase they're faced with abuse from low-life youths who have nothing better to do than terrorise their neighbours.
In many cases, not answering the door will result in having eggs thrown at your house or your car vandalised; it's a no-win situation. I have had my house egged once before (though not severely). The city of Bristol gets it pretty bad I feel.
Well, there's only one solution; fitting a flamethrower to my post box! That will be one hell of a trick or treat surprise!
And once more I have to say that problem youths at Hallowe'en seems more of an English problem, certainly to the vandalism extent I've read about, so "here in the UK people are afraid to open their doors" doesn't really apply north of the border. I've heard no one complaining about it here.
I never knew Halloween was the end of the world. "Excuse for chaos" Gimme a break!
I can assure you that unfortunately it is true. There are most definitely extra patrols of police and their work load is considerably increased.
It is not pleasant when you get groups costume less teenage boys knocking at the door at 9.30 - 10.00pm saying 'trick or treat' ( which I did). No wonder the elderly in particular are scared.
For all those that accuse us of being sourpusses, I think it depends which side of the pond you are on. In the States it is a long and happy tradition that families participate in. I know that people will leave bowls of candy on the doorstep for 'trick or treaters' if they are going out.
It is very different here. It is just an excuse for mindless yobs to cause even more mayhem than usual which is why our shops wont sell eggs to under 18's, our police are patrolling issuing dispersal orders and many sit at home on the dark waiting for it to go away.
I appreciate what you meant M5, I was really commentating on what is going on in my neck of the woods as opposed to Scotland.
It's a shame that in England Halloween has been hijacked by the mobs. I remember as a kid we didn't do 't or t' but we used to have small parties were we bobbed for apples and the like. My daughter was at a Halloween party last night, dressed as a Vampire and sticking her head in yellow jelly looking for spider shaped sweets and I think thats great and thats how it should be. I just wish we could treat it as a fun holiday like in the US instead of having to
batten down the hatches.
How absolutely rude, condascending, offensive and completely and utterly arrogant of you.
Go read up on the Hallowe'en tradition, go rake in the Scottish news over the last few nights and see what you come up with in terms of increased policing over Hallowe'en across Scotland. And then read up on the fact that Scotland is actually a nation, with its own laws, its own parliament, its own traditions and culture, and isn't a "region" of England like Yorkshire or Kent.
There are at times when I hear the arguments of Scottish independence sounding rather attractive when I read such patronising, offensive arrogance. Perhaps not so surprising that the last poll had 44% of Scots in favour of breaking up the UK.
Yes, shaving cream and eggs occur here, although the last time I witnessed one was 1985 Germany, and I was a participant! (does that shock your tender souls?)
Anyway. I'm starting to realize over the last four or five years how different and seperate an entity the UK is from us.
Again, I regret my comments, and wish no ill will towards my fellow diabolics across the "pond", but I still love Halloween!! (so sue me)
No need to sound so defensive, good Sir! {[] But, up until this point, a much greater number of our American friends have displayed their love for the Halloween celebration thus far.
I'm now aware that I sounded as if I was generalising when I used the term "UK" instead of "England". But Scotland isn't 100% free of problems, simply because we don't read it in the news or see it on television (and I'm aware that's not what you're saying). It is indeed worse in England, and I'll add the good Lady Rose's points to those already listed.
Alex, considering some of the anti-social trolls that roam our streets at night, Halloween could be considered an "excuse for chaos" in some regions.
It is a great shame though.
I'll withdraw my "sourpuss" remark, as well. I didn't realize that Halloween (or we'en) vandalism was common, at least in certain areas of England. I don't think too many American teens actually trick-or-treat, or take the phrase literally. They tend to go to parties, (where they can do things all the things they like to do in private). It's mostly harmless little kids who show up at the door.
I've actually told my oldest son that he's getting near the end of his 'trick or treating' days---he'll be 11 in nine days. 12 will be about the limit, I think...after that, he'll have to retire, and help his mum pass out candy to the kiddies who come to our house...
"I am not an entrant in the Shakespeare Stakes." - Ian Fleming
"Screw 'em." - Daniel Craig, The Best James Bond EverTM
Loeff, your son may opt out voluntarily, if my experience is any barometer. My 12-year-old daughter has definitely deemed herself "too cool" for such mundane things as trick-or-treating.8-) Last night, she preferred to hang out with her friends, flirt with the boys and engage in other rites of passage. When she came home, she smelled like a Noxcema factory.
It is she who is primarily responsible for me frequenting AJB, as a means to escape thinking about the teenage years just ahead.:s
You're probably right about that; I'm already beginning to see the signs...
Teenage years
[shudder]
My own were tough enough; I'm not looking forward to experiencing them from a parental perspective
"I am not an entrant in the Shakespeare Stakes." - Ian Fleming
"Screw 'em." - Daniel Craig, The Best James Bond EverTM
I didn't mean to. I'm sure there are plenty here in the UK that thoroughly enjoy Halloween. I myself was sitting in a restaurant that was totally decorated for Halloween ( including the staff), had a spooky Karaoke for the kids plus toffee apples etc As I said, my 9 year old daughter was at a party also. I love seeing the little ones turn up as fairies, witches and ghouls.This is how it should be.
Unfortunately there is an element here though that just use it as an excuse to cause trouble. ( This same element are also causing problems with misusing firework's.) My family are in Liverpool where there were reported problems and I live and work in London which has more than its fair share of issues with unruly youths. Perhaps my view is a little tainted as my own experiences haven't been entirely positive.
I didn't mean to make my US pals all feel bad, thats for sure.The yob culture here is appalling and its just a case of the few ruining it for the majority as per usual.I wish it was like the US when its just a great evening for the kids and more importantly,fun.